Monday, November 05, 2007

The man I want

i've been thinking recently, about what kind of guy do I really want? So I looked back at all the guys I've been attracted to, trying to find common traits. There aren't any distinct similarities, and I realised that when I like someone, it doesnt really matter what his personality / character is like, i just like him no matter what.

This is not the way. Its no good.

This is a list of what my next boyfriend must fulfill (in order of importance):
  1. sees me as part of his life, and himself as part of mine.
  2. puts me & family before anyone else
  3. takes care of me, protects me, guides and treasures me.
  4. is a gentleman who respects and does not do things that hurt me.
  5. does not drool over or flirt other girls, or call them hotness/goddess/beautiful. In his eyes I am the most beautiful. and he doesn't need affirmation from girls that don't matter.
  6. At least 10cm taller than me.
  7. romantic & thoughtful
  8. Matured and serious when needed
  9. Motivated, but not unrealistically ambitious
  10. Funny and cute (and cute does not equal immaturity)
  11. Patient & understanding
  12. Wants marriage and a family.
  13. talkative when I'm not, and listens when I talk
  14. does not spend frivolously
  15. has a kind and loving heart
  16. makes me glow like a star
  17. not tone-deaf
Not very demanding right? At least must fulfill 3/4 of the above lo.

And in return, I will give him all my patience, heart, listening ear, support, brains, beauty and cute babies (after we get married).

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