BOYS STINK.

seriously, (almost) all men are jerks. except for my dad (so far).

Maybe I haven't met enough guys, but no guys i know, except my dad, is acquitted of the 'cheating' accusation, or the 'player fields'. Even my paternal granddad has 3 wives. And my maternal grandpa almost eloped with another girl 50 years ago or something while my grandma was pregnant.

The day my parents' marriage fail, will be the day I lose faith in true love completely. Which, of course, I hope will never ever come. They're still lovey dovey until today, sometimes making us children blush even.

I guess as we get older, our tolerance for what's wrong grows higher, and our definition of what's right shrinks. That's why more people cheat around now, thinking they are not committing some grievous act.

I remember years ago when I thought that cheating is an absolutely no-no and rightly leads to a breakup. But in recent years, I actually grew to understand why would guys cheat, and why girls forgive them. Either that, or I've resigned to fate that its nature that boys cheat, so there's no need to judge if its right or wrong. Its only a matter of whether you can accept it or not.

Yes, i think its nature that boys want to lay their seeds around. I believe that they are genetically programmed to breed & lead the pack, thus the endless testosterone and sex drive, which also results in something called the ego.

Face it, girls. Guys DON'T NEED a reason to fuck around. They sleeping/flirting with other girls does not mean he loves them (but of course it also means he does not love you enough to control his beastly nature). They just need to feed their ego and fulfill their 'duty' of spreading the seed, you know, like those pollen jocks in the bee movie.

So unless you are lucky enough to find a guy who loves you more than himself, you should learn to accept this way the nature works and close one (or both) eye(s) to his actions. Which, of course, the latter will make you go paranoid, cynical and mentally unsound like myself.

Otherwise, if you are capable, go sillily believe in true undying love and live in your own delusions. This is the best option.

BOYS STINK.

Oh oh, or you can find a guy with veeery little testosterones so he plays a thes least important member among the pollen jocks.