男人爱女人的过程

read this somewhere. 感触很深，因为很真实。


男人爱女人的过程是: 爱 --怕--烦--离开;
女人爱男人的步骤是: 无所谓--喜欢--爱--真情难收


男人的爱是把天鹅逐渐变成癞蛤蟆的过程;
女人的爱测是把青蛙变成王子的过程


和男人在一起时,你是他的全部:和男人分开时,你什么都不是;
和女人在一起时;你是她的全部:和女人分开时,你还是她的全部


男人总是用"下半身''考虑; 女人考虑得更多的是"下半生''


男人的爱可用名利.地位来衡量;女人的爱可以拿名声生命去换取

当男人很爱女人时,女人可能还没爱上这个男人;
当女人逐渐喜欢并爱上这个男人时,也许正是男人厌烦女人准备开跑之际


女人永远可以区分"爱''和"喜欢'',男人只知道哪个是最爱.
所谓的"唯一''基本不属实.


男人以得到好女人炫耀自己;
女人以守住好男人炫耀自己......

wish granted.

13 Nov, Sat.

Relaxing in the pool, dinner at Lawry's and breakfast in bed - the surprise planned specially for his birthday! Am I an awesome girlfriend or what?

I just realised that he meets the the-man-I-want criteria I listed 3 years ago. And see, I am true to my words - I was given the man I wanted (he does fulfill at least 75%, and in return, I am giving him the best of me. ♥

such a feeling's coming over me

being woken up by a gentle kiss on the forehead, and looking into the eyes that sees only you - it's such a indescribable feeling of happiness being unexpectedly in love with the one who loves you.

19months

It was a lovely evening, with yummy ramen, and then drinks at a place with a awesome view of singapore. just us two. :)

woof!

it's amazing how my barrel-shaped doggie can instantly put a smile on my face just by looking at me. loves! 

Congrats to YY!

Yanyan just got engaged!!! =D

We were sosuperduper excited about it, and so touched when we finally saw the proposal happen. I'm lazy to describe the process in detail, but basically it involved a cinema full of people, a video clip, and finally, an appearance by Mike with a MAD CHIO heart-shaped diamond ring, and asked her to marry him while on bended knee.

Kaykay & I like totally burst out in tears when the clip came on. So sweet of Mike, who's like shy & quiet most times, to do such a public declaration of love!

It has been almost a decade since CYY & I became friends, and it's really really heartwarming and such a relieft to know that she finally found The One after all the lousy guys & heartbreaks from her younger days. =)

To all girls out there who's constantly worrying about not being able to meet The One (yes you, viv), good things are worth waiting for.

On another note, I've to accept the fact that i'm not skinny anymore. Really. To those who think I'm being crazy, wait till you see Kaykay, Cheesie & Teo Shuyin, only THEN you know what is skinny. I feel like a giant when I walk beside them. =(

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On to other grumblings:

I'm angry that I have to wake up early tomorrow to do work-stuff that's not even related to me project and I've to sacrifice my entire Saturday afternoon & night for this event at Zirca with no alcohol. wtf. Argh! I'm gonna be so tired and grumpy. bah!

Sorry I can't spend anytime with you this weekend, boyfriend.

Can't get enough of the awesomely weird dream I had last night. Hope I dream about it again.
Goodnight!

Today, the chest of memories and past will be locked shut forever. The key will be thrown away.

You know the scene in so many movies where The Ex gets married? I started piecing this picture in my head since we split up a long time ago, complete with a soundtrack for myself. Them in a church, at the ROM, on stage toasting to their guests. The same scene that used to be a dream starring me.

Tears would fall, heart would break silently, breathing would be difficult. That was my imagination.

A tinge of nostalgia, some disappointment, a sigh of relief. That is reality.

goodbye to the one given away. the one that used to be the smell of warmth and security. all the best. treat him well, new owner.

I have my reliable skinny bear now, to sayang my funny tummy. To start & complete a new dream with me, for me. :)

junne is so 幸福!

I was brought into this world 25 years ago with two persons ready to shower me with all their love for their entire lives. Today, they've brought me up to be well-loved by many more. :)

today also marks the end of my 4-day birthday celebration with all these wonderful people!

Day 1: 29 May, Fri
Dinner at some Peranakan restaurant with the never-ending love of my life - my family! Dinner was cheap and good.

Really thumbs up to the boyfriend's keen sense of observation and attention to detail, I only mentioned to him once that I liked this cake I had in the office, and he managed to find the same cake.

And this cake was absolute Awesomeness. Everyone loved it, this is the first time I had a birthday cake that made everyone willing to dabao home to finish it.

GongGong was so cute - he made everyone sing 'Happy Birthday' thrice. Once in English and twice in Mandarin cuz he was slow. LOL.




Day 2: 30 May, Sat
O-M-G.

The night I got SO BLOODY WASTED i don't remember at least 25% of what happened the whole time.

Of what I remember, dinner at Hakata was, cramped with two unexpected guests in the small private room. But food was not bad, and we were all laughters as usual.

AND THEN, we went to Butter where Gwenne had a table reserved. AND THEN, I was made to drink like at least 11 shots (excluding the other existing-drinks on the table) by my own friends AND boyfriend. AND THEN, somehow was pulled to the member's by Gwenne, where I was made to drink EVEN more.

From Butter, I only remembered, in bits and pieces, drinking alot, dancing on the platform for 10secs, and making my way around the club and being made to drink by random friends of random friends. And the boyfriend being so caught up entertaining himself and friends and leaving me to the company of the very-high Gwenne. HMPH!

But it was good memorable fun.


Day 3: 31 May, Sun
Dinner at Azur with the 'other family', Benny's parents. :)

Was sooo hungover from the night before, I couldn't enjoy the scrumptious buffet. But still, it was heartwarming to be treated like family! :) :)

The Actual Day: 1 June, Mon
My first day of the week at work greeted with a 'very nice' Leon singing Happy Birthday when I stepped into the office. Made me laugh.

Given my not-so-good social skills in the office, that was all I was expecting for my birthday at work. So imagine my surprise when suddenly at 6pm, Charlene started singing Happy Birthday behind me with a cake. :)

I got a pretty dress, from them too! :D Oh, and some 'surprise' SK-II stuff from Leon!

And the day ended with alone-time celebration with ABNN over dinner and a pot of soothing camomile tea (while he enjoys an ice cold beer, i had to stay away from alcohol for at least a week) at La Villa, wish-talking about our future, and arguing about how ah-beng he is. Dinner was so-so only, but the ambience is really good. *hearts*



So..
turning 25 is not so bad afterall, with so many people doting on me and getting older together with me. :D

I feel so 幸福! Now I can say I'm really contented with my personal life. :)

Thanks, everyone!

treading into danger

I'm..

...on the verge of returning to my shopaholic ways
...getting more enthralled by this whole in-a-relationship thingy
...slacking off at work with almost nothing to do everyday
...having trouble to just 'slip' into my pair of jeans
...upset about the endless pimples that just keep popping out

To self: **Stay Alert**

人是犯贱的

You think you want something so badly, but when you have it, you start to wonder if its actually making your life any better..
Weird.

人是犯贱的

世上无难事，只怕有心人

I'm now convinced that 感情是可以培养的。 :)

If there's one thing I learnt after two serious relationships that failed. Its is what when a relationship ends, the greatest loss is not losing the one you loved. Its losing the bond, the memories and the hope you built over the years together.

its a strange strange feeling.

when you look at old photos and realise that the one who used to be closest to you is now a stranger. a stranger who is now sharing similar moments with another stranger.

those carefree moments of happiness and trust are now just truth of the past captured in photographs.

why is that someone you cared so much for, can just suddenly disappear from your life into an unknown distance far from your heart?

Today, I realised another kind of pain, having your heartbroken by being denied of your true feelings.

You think I don't care but you can't see the fragments of my heart.

i wish there's a perfect solution to all these fucking shitty pieces of life.

Somebody help. Anyone? No one.

Or at least, dig me a hole to hide and rot in? please?

Now - can you see how the desires of a man's heart and a woman's heart were at least meant to fit beautifully together?

A woman, in the presence of a good man, a real man, loves being a woman. His strength allows her feminine heart to flourish. His pursuit draws out her beauty. And a man, in the presence of a real woman, loves being a man. Her beauty arouses him to play the man, it draws out his strength. She inspires him to be a hero. Would that we all be so fortunate.

- John & Stasi Elderedge

Waiting for my ezer kenegdo.

没心情工作.

突然好想谈恋爱.

全心全意, 投入地爱一场.

好想好想

i miss aussieland...

huddling myself in the cold winters, walks along the river with taylor, HJ ice cream, stuffing ourselves like pigs and cuddling under the blanket, PS2, relaxing lone strolls with the cold wind piercing my face, cheap summer clothes in winter, utopia, expensive bbt, slacking in and through uni.. movie marathons, the nice guy in melbourne who fixed my heels for free, walking around in my coat and boots gulping a fattening milkshake, hoyts on tuesdays...

I never thought I would say this, but i really really miss aussieland. :(

For 3 days, I lived in the past.

Did it really happen?

What's gonna happen now?

What will it be another few years down the road?

Who wins in the end? My mind? Or my heart?

Find a guy, who calls you beautiful
the one who puts down his ego for you,
Who will stay awake when you can't fall asleep

The one who shares his hopes, dreams and future with you,
who holds your hand and guide you
Wait for the guy, who waits for you

who gives up his comfort for yours
the one calls you back when you hang up on him.
Smile for the one who makes you smile

Who saves his money to bring you on a holiday
The one who sees you right to your doorstep everytime
Cry for the boy who cries for you

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and say, "..that's her

there's no reason to stay if there's a reason to go.

simple as that. but we usually just keep using the reasons we have to stay to make the decision whether to leave or not.

but if something is really worth so much for you to stay on for, why would you entertain the thought of wanting to leave?

Maybe I'm too much of a perfectionist. Or maybe, I'm still trying to use this to push through.